How Are You? February Issue #6

Hey there! 👋

You might have noticed that my “How Are You?” weekly rubric is slowly transforming into a monthly one. I’ve realized that reflecting monthly works better for me, so let’s see how it goes. 

Also, you may be wondering – why am I writing this before February even ends? Well, I’m about to take a 5-day vacation to properly recharge. 🏖️

Before we begin…

You won’t find anything political in this issue. That’s because, like many, I’m still observing, still shocked by the new U.S. president, but choosing to focus on what I can control – my donations.

So, here’s my February self-reflection.

How is Work? 

The chaos and restructuring in January finally paid off in February. I finally had time to focus on affiliates, partnerships, and upcoming events.

At the same time, I had one of those moments where I asked myself:
“Who am I here?” 🤔 “Am I still useful to my company?” 

I even considered getting a mentor. But after jotting down my thoughts, I realized… I already know my wishes and goals at this point.

Honestly, I don’t have huge ambitions. And you know what? That’s okay. 😅

I’ve finally accepted that I want to be an “average person” – someone who doesn’t sacrifice their family or mental health just to chase bigger projects. It might not be the best mindset for a fast-growing company, but I’m lucky that my CEO respects my priorities at this point.

Year Without Shopping: Update

This challenge is going surprisingly well! 🤣

I thought it would be harder (and sometimes it is), but overall, it boosts my confidence knowing that I’m saving first and not wasting money on things I don’t need.

I should have named this challenge “A Year Without Impulsive Shopping.” Right now, I had one impulsive purchase per month – way better than my spending habits last year.

I’m also learning to find joy in saving and donating first. Only after hitting those goals – I allow myself to buy something from my wishlist.

Physical Health

My routine of two workouts per week, daily stretching, and lunchtime/after-work walks is working well! Planning to keep it up and even try tennis soon to keep things fun and engaging. 🎾

Emotional State

I’m finally feeling stable. Good planning and self-care are paying off – I feel more confident and relaxed.

February was the first month in a long time when I felt ready to start something new. I’m open to trying new sports, exploring new courses to improve my skills, and even considering joining some podcasts as a guest.

I’m taking things slowly this time – step by step – to avoid burnout. And for the first time in three years, I genuinely feel ready for something new.

🎧 Recently, I enjoyed this podcast about work-life balance (or rather, the fact that it doesn’t exist 😅): The Tortoise with Brooke McAlary

How are Finances?

Between January and February, I managed to:

✅ Donate $250 (from my $1,500 goal) to the Ukrainian army.
✅ Save $650 (from my $3,700 yearly goal).

I’m proud of how I manage my finances now – years of reading fancy finance books didn’t go to waste! 😆

Next step? Investing. I’ve wanted to try it for years but never felt I had the self-control. Time to change that!

How are you doing?

How was your February? 🌿 Spring is already in the air, and I hope it brings fresh energy your way.

See you in March! 💛